I hate sounding just like everyone else, but i seem to be falling into the same christmas trap. There seems to be loads of stuff to do, and with brother out of action i'm finding it hard to balance everyone: home, work, family and friends. Not to mention money. But it was inevitable something was going to give, so now, despite trying hard, i'm in trouble. And all i can think is that i don't care any more. More people should say this at xmas, but as we say at work, 'it don't ma'er'. Time to face the music.