...no position to deal with it. And when i'm happy i seem to pretend the experience never happened, and i suspect i've been doing this for years. I have a poster that says 'living in denial of the world's problems is perhaps the only way to have fun anymore'. I disagree. We've all had bad experiences (this isn't about self pity), but the only way to be healthy about these things is to learn to fit them in with everything else and get on.)I didn't say it would be easy though.